How to speak at a friend's funeral
Friends occupy a precious territory in the heart and the human mind. Bring the truth, beauty and humor of the friendship you shared with your beloved, to the funeral. Speak honestly, and do not be afraid to use your heart. If there was ever a time to do it, this is the time. Take comfort in the shared experience of pain among the mourners present, among those who will always remember the deceased and now feel the pain of their departure.
You will need to:- Records
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Write your words on small cards in advance. Refer to the cards as you speak, to stay focused. Highlight themes in yellow to remind you to talk about those topics. Print in large characters, suggests Speech-Topics-Help.com.
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Express your sorrow and condolences to the family . Include some words to let them know how much you loved the deceased. Tell them that you include them in their thoughts and prayers as they go through this difficult time.
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Share the experiences and experiences you lived with that person. Tell a story about your joyful vitality, your compassion for others or your strength in difficult times. Relate a humorous story.
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Give yourself permission to show your pain. Laugh through tears, if it's about that.
Tips- Talk two to five minutes.
- A hug is a good gesture very grateful to end the conversation at a funeral.
