How to party alone

Has not it happened to you that the weekend comes and you want to leave but no one signs up? And you stay at home with the desire that you had to party after a hard week of work. Have not you considered the idea of going out alone ? Since no one signs up, you're not going to stay at home with no desire when the night can give you many surprises. Well you can go out alone, you have to put desire and audacity. For this, in we are going to give you some clues about how to party only one night on Friday or Saturday and discover that you do not have to miss a soiree if you both want to go and if what stops you is to see you alone, that you know you can hide it.

If you go to a bar

If you have never done it and do not know how to act, the first advice we give you is to go to a trusted bar where you meet the owners, so you can have a drink and talk to them so you do not feel so alone and that it does not seem like you're without talking to anyone. From there, there may be another person in the bar like you with whom you start a conversation and you can continue taking your drinks, this time in company even if it is talking about banalities.

If the owners are doing well, lengthen the night until the closing and ask them where they are going next, with the glasses that you have already taken, you will be braver to join them or anyone in the bar.

If you go to a concert

If you do not want to miss that concert that you expected so much, you already have paid tickets and it is one of your favorite groups but nobody is with you, we recommend you go and do not miss it. Keep in mind that in a room where everyone is standing and quite full, no one will repair whether you are alone or not, people may think that your friends are in the front row, next door or at the bar, because at concerts we are talking precisely if not dancing.

Enjoy watching the stage and no one will notice your loneliness. We recommend that you enter just when you are about to start and that you are not alone in those moments when you have not yet started and people are waiting for you to chat.

A party where you do not know anyone

You are invited to a party by a friend of a friend or your own friend but you do not know anyone and you know that you will be involved in attending to everyone and you will see yourself. So as not to be stuck to your host continuously and look like your shadow, you should wake up, so do not cut yourself and go to serve yourself a drink and talk to the first one you meet, valuing the house, the party or the food and saying that you have come because you're a friend of so-and-so or little man.

You can make a joke to start a smile and to continue the joke, that way, you can go closer to them or others when you see that you are very lonely.

If you go to a pub

You want to go out and the whole march is in the pubs area. To enter only one of them, think you're going to take one and leave. Nobody knows that you will be alone all night, you can adopt the attitude that you are waiting for someone, looking at the clock, looking at the door or looking at the mobile phone.

In fact you can take your drinks at the bar using your mobile phone until you feel confident about yourself and dance a song, for example. We recommend changing the pub by taking one so you do not feel alone or this is perceived.

If you go to a disco

If you only go to a discotheque, it is best that you have rehearsed a bit by going first to a bar first, since you go to the clubs a little later. So as not to go directly to them from home, go before having a drink and that way you are warming up. Once you get to the disco, go to the bar to ask for something, this is where most people tend to be and nobody will notice that you are alone but you are going to ask for a drink alone, simply.

We recommend that you do not stand standing on a wall, but that you go to the dance floor and dance. Again, having music, is not the best place to be talking but dancing, do the same and join groups that dance together with a smile, but without overwhelming or being heavy. If you see that a person looks at you and likes you, come and talk to her, you may stop being alone tonight.

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If you go to a work event just

If you go to a congress alone and at the end there is a closing party to celebrate the end of the event, come to this with your cards at hand and make conversation with anyone you find taking food or drink while you value the conference and its speakers with a lot of education .

Distribute your card by introducing yourself but without going through the number of people to whom you deliver it or talking about you. Do it if you see that you can have something in common to collaborate and keep moving around the room with a drink in hand and scanning the space. You can also approach the speakers and thank them for their speech.

• Do not look very striking if you go out alone and do not want to be known. Neutral colors and jeans to not stand out from the rest.
• Drink in moderation, at small sips and not many drinks. There is nothing worse than a single drunk person.
• If you go to talk to someone, do it without being heavy, a comment or two and that's it, unless you see that they are looking for your conversation.
• Do not be generous inviting everyone for not feeling alone, because it is too flashy and nobody usually does it just for sure.
• Dance watching people as if you were dancing with them. Come to the group if you feel invited with gestures or looks.
• Carry money on tickets for events and taxis, you never know where you can end up or with whom when you go out alone.