How to know if my relationship is conflictive

For some it may seem very obvious and simple to detect when a union definitely does not work, and is that the problems are detected meters away. But for those who have time together the couple sometimes is not so simple to know that their relationship is conflictive, so in .com we give you some signs that should put you on alert and make you rethink if you and your partner are living a healthy union and happy

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Conflicting relationships are characterized by very drastic highs and lows, in more problematic stages, even good moments are not experienced, but on the contrary, discussions are more frequent

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The instability is present: there is a very aggravated take / drop situation, "I want us to be together" but after two days "I can not stand you". It is a roller coaster in which you never know what may happen, future plans are difficult to pose

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One of the members or both drags problems and traumas of past relationships that have inadvertently been extrapolated to the current union. A person who in itself is conflictive can hardly relate emotionally to another person moving away from that problematic pattern, because it is very linked to his personality and way of being.

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Conflicting relationships negatively influence self-esteem : if when you think about your partner you feel bad, diminished, insecure and uncomfortable for sure your union is not well

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In the face of a problem or negative situation, arguments are raised that can end in a real battle. Verbal or even more important psychological violence is very present in conflictive relationships

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Conflicting relationships develop negative behaviors such as dependence, jealousy, attacks of depression and various problems related to the emotional and psychological aspect

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Conflicting relationships have a determining influence on our health, causing different problems. We have prepared an article about this topic that you can consult here

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In a conflictual relationship it is very important to act and admit that love should include respect and consideration for the other, along with values ​​such as trust or admiration for our partner. If this has been lost, you can hardly sustain a healthy relationship

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If you consider that your relationship is not going well and both are willing to work for it, it is best to visit a specialist who guides them.

• We all deserve to be with someone who loves, respects and values ​​us, if you consider that this has been lost in your relationship it may be prudent to evaluate if it is positive to continue with the union