How to get along with the political family

When it is time to start a life together, there is a latent fear in many couples, and it is how to face that relationship with parents, siblings, and other relatives of your partner. The scenario full of doubts can become a harmonious environment, thanks to some suggestions that will help you to deal with the issue, discover how to get along with the political family without dying in the attempt

Steps to follow:

one

First of all create a balance, at this moment you are a priority, although your respective parents are an active part of your life, you must understand that now is the time to build a new path for you, so do not feel bad when you dedicate time to you and your relationship

two

If both have their families in the same city you should establish visits in a balanced way, that none of the couple feels that they share more with the family of the other than with theirs, this will only cause problems between you

3

When you meet with your partner's political family, maintain cordiality and avoid comments or situations that encourage an atmosphere of hostility or competition at all costs, they are a few hours so you can make an effort to give your best.

4

Remember that it is your partner's family, and not yours . When we are with our family we are happy to talk about anything, because they have finally raised us or have seen us grow, but maybe in your partner's house it is different, so follow the advice "where do you do what you see "and you'll be fine

5

In meetings with your in-laws avoid being the one who proposes controversial issues such as religion, politics, sexual preferences and in general anything that may elicit conflicting opinions and radicals. If the issue arises do not intervene

6

Stay available to help whenever you need it, if you are preparing a meal actively collaborate, if the opportunity to repair something arises and you can help offer yourself, that you feel that your presence as well as friendly is useful

7

Encourage pleasant conversation, worry about knowing how your couple's relatives are, talk to them and keep the sympathetic tone

8

Smile, be friendly without being too hypocritical, but remember that it is finally your duty to share with them as your partner shares with your family, so take the evening as well as possible

9

Avoid sharing your intimacy as a couple with one of the members of your political family, no matter how good they are, your partner will not be pleased to know that you vent your problems or talk more with your family