How to get along with my partner's friends

Getting along with your partner's friends is very important for the well-being of your relationship, probably more than you think. Let's start by mentioning some of the positive things: they can make incredible plans in pairs, your boyfriend's friends can also become your friends, the bond with your partner will be stronger, they will spend more quality time together, among other benefits.

If, on the other hand, you decide that you do not mind getting along with your partner's friends, the picture is different: you will not want to accompany your boyfriend to any place where his friends are, they will share less time together, you will have problems with your boyfriend because you do not want to go out with him and his friends, his friends will end up stopping inviting him, your boyfriend will be without friends ... and he will recover them later, when he breaks up with you. Because we know you do not want that awful list of bad things to happen to you, here we prepare a guide for you to stop questioning yourself: " how to get along with my partner's friends ". Cheer up, there are more pro than against.

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Getting along with your partner's friends is not an impossible mission, but to achieve it you have to get something out of your mind: completely forget that you are your partner's friends! With this we do not mean that you treat them as if they were your lifelong friends, but that you do away with that feeling of wanting to make a good impression. Good impression is achieved with only one thing: smile wherever you go.

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To get along with your partner's friends you must start by being yourself . It's like making friends from scratch, they do not know you, you do not know them, then? Start knowing them and open your personality so that they can also know who you are, what you like, discover common tastes and generate conversation, a lot of conversation.

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Nothing better to break the ice than the anecdotes of the past . Asking them how they met your partner can be a good way to start listening to funny stories about the past they have in common and begin to put aside more superficial issues.

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Tell your partner to tell you a little about their friends . This can help you generate conversation material, to know what to say to one and not to tell another or simply know what to say and to be silent so as not to be irrelevant without wanting to. Of course, from the information you get you must avoid forming prejudices, remember: they are as unknown to you as you are to them.

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When you have treated them a little more than a couple of times, then invite them to dinner . You can organize an outing to a restaurant that you want to know for some time and coordinate a group menu. If you like the most intimate plans, then invite them home and plan a fun evening with your partner in which they both cook for the guests of the night: their friends.

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If a girl in the group is the ex of your partner, treat her like any other friend of your boyfriend. Handle the situation with reason: if your boyfriend is with you it is because he does not want to be with her and if she has not turned the page yet, very simple, that is not your concern. Be respectful, do not fall for provocations and keep calm.

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When you have enough time to meet and share: plan a trip for everyone. It can be a weekend in a rural house or wait for the arrival of summer to venture into an unknown place. Trips with friends are usually unforgettable and undoubtedly create unbreakable ties.